Cydonia

ashentara · Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 12:47 am Post subject:

Great pic, wow!!! lOve the colour and the haircut.

Well today was a good today, tonight I mean. I jsut came home from my volleyball game (brand new season just started today). I'd really missed the game during summer break.. and lo and behold, we have a couple of new players. One of which.. is totally... damn. Eye candy. And nice. And funny. And a very good player.
Oh, and single. I'm totally into him already, which scares me a bit, but at the same time, it's kinda cool, because to be honest, ever since Chad, no one had made me smile like that... I felt a real connection, but hm.. I'm a little rusty on the dating thing, so I'm gonna need advice you guys!

I'll see him about twice a week from now on for practice and games, and I hope to get to know him better. Damn I sound like a 13 year old, don't I.

Ok what would you do in my position?

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SuperGinge · Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:16 pm Post subject:

ashentara · Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:24 pm Post subject:

Yeah I'm thinking that against all my impulses (bad impulses!) I should give it some time, after all, I've only seen the guy twice, like 8 hours in total lol, that's not much is it.
We did go for a drink after the game yesterday and I drove him back to his car, but yeah, I'm gonna take a breather and let a few days go before I do anything stupid lol

My birthday is coming up soon so I'm gonna have a party and make sure to invite him of course he he he.
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SuperGinge · Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:45 pm Post subject:

Sounds like the best plan, just take things slowly.

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ashentara · Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 10:50 pm Post subject:

ah ha Ive exchanged a few mails with my ... crush lol

this so reminds me of Chad at the beginnning, so weird
same connection
I'll let yous kno what happens. So far we're in the "best friends, same sense of humour, etc" stage.

ehhehhehe

it feels so good you know to actually fantasize about someone else... for those of you who know my history... this is quite the step forward isn't it
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ashentara · Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 11:20 pm Post subject:

and a couple mails/texts later it's still as good

feeback peeps!!!!please
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TreeHeart · Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 11:36 pm Post subject:

Sounds good! Just let it happen I suppose is the best thing and if it seems like yous are both on the same wavelength then you'll know. I am so bad at dating advice. Since I haven't in like forever!
We didn't have email or texts back then.!

Helen · Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 2:29 pm Post subject:

awww Manu this sounds good

Glad you able to move on a little after Chad - i know it must be difficult.

I guess you need to take things slowly

ashentara · Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 6:07 pm Post subject:

Slowly is not my thing, it seems.
I tried, honest

lol

I invited him over for dinner on Saturday with a couple other friends. Haven't heard back from him yet. Fingers crossed! Either he's into me too, or he's just gonna think I'm a pain in the ass stalker.
Either way, I'll know...
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Helen · Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 4:02 pm Post subject:

good luck Manu

ashentara · Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 4:08 pm Post subject:

well he sent me a mail saying he'll be there.

That's good news right?

We barely know each other, seen each other only twice lol, I can't believe I invited him over for dinner!! But hey. What's done is done rofl
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SuperGinge · Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 1:12 am Post subject:

Aww that sounds great Manu! Hope it goes well!

I've just got back from The Maccabees, such an amazing gig. I may or may not wake up with a black eye tomorrow.

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