Archive for Cydonia For Muse-ing About Stuff!
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ashentara
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my sentimental life is chaosremember Nico, who dumped last August, because he couldn't cope with my neurosis and all my problems.. I thought all was said and done;
Well apparently not. He's been emailing me recently, we even met for a friendly evening, and from what I've gathered, he'd like to give us another try,
I'm just not sure where I belong. We did have wonderful times together, but it also did end pretty bad. He says "water under the bridge", bla bla bla;
Still I don't know what to do
On top of that there's that guy, Brice, who I met online and who seems really nice and wants to meet up. We'll be having coffee on Thursday.
What the hell is happening in my life????
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Museclues
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aww, coem here manu 
oh! i was watching dateline to catach a predator be careful, ok? sometimes people are meanies...
on the other hand if theyre not a criminal asking for you wallet and credit card  have a great time!
feel better 
oine question though-wats sentimental mean? pardon my stupid 13 year old brain 
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wildflower
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Hey manu,
I think that Nico is an adult and if he wasnt sure that he was in the right emotional state to give your relationship another go, then i dont think he would have been emailing you, and asking you to try again, sometimes we just need a little time to get our head around things, and to assess whats important, also "you dont know what youre missing until its gone"  so dont dismiss Nico altogether, but meet Brice for a drink and see how it goes, obviously take all the safety precautions when your meeting someone from the internet, cause like Paige says, you never know! i wish you lots and lots of luck, and let us know, simply cause we're nosey 
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hystericali
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| wildflower wrote: | Hey manu,
I think that Nico is an adult and if he wasnt sure that he was in the right emotional state to give your relationship another go, then i dont think he would have been emailing you, and asking you to try again, sometimes we just need a little time to get our head around things, and to assess whats important, also "you dont know what youre missing until its gone" so dont dismiss Nico altogether, but meet Brice for a drink and see how it goes, obviously take all the safety precautions when your meeting someone from the internet, cause like Paige says, you never know! i wish you lots and lots of luck, and let us know, simply cause we're nosey
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what she said ^^
Carroll has this habit of getting in my brain and saying what I think
take it a step at a time
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ashentara
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thanks gals
Paige, "sentimental" as in "love story", you know cheesy girly stuff lol
love life.
Yes I'll take it one step at a time
I've decided not to meet up with Brice for the time being though, because I can't concentrate on two different things (that's just me).
I've been thinking a lot about Nico, about what could happen, how we'd give it another go, etc.. I'll meet him on Saturday with the kids, I really want to take things slow and see how it works out.
He says I'm different now, more mature, etc, I really don't know, but it's true he's a grown-up, and well if he still thinks we could have something good... why not. We'll see
and OF COURSE I'll keep you posted!
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Museclues
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oh!!okie, how did i not know that!
here we go with my stupid brain farts again...
oh yes, our nosyness is such a habit here in cydonia...am i rite gals?have tons of fun, and make good choices manu..,i know you"ll find the rite guy[i think i make a good cupid] 
i set up my best friend with my "so called cousin"[but we're not actually related
cha, so good luck manu!
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wildflower
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Great minds Ali
Good for you Manu, i think thats a really sensible approach, keep your options open, but one step at a time, i wish you all the luck in the world
Yep Paige, i think noseyness is the glue that holds us cydonians together lol
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ashentara
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so far so good, I'm keeping my options open, I want to take things slow anyhow.. so we'll see
don't worry, your noseyness witll be fed iwth llots of gossip once i have them!
(god it's late and I can't type right ooooooooopsie)
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wildflower
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*sits and waits patiently for some gossip* 
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Northern-Star
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I agree with what they all said Good luck and have fun.
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ashentara
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well we're meeting tomorrow so maybe there'll be some gossip
god how I love this forum I could never chat about that kind of stuff on any other forum
a toast to Cydo!!!
(and to Ali, our Messiah)
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wildflower
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*clinks glass*
Cheers
have fun tomorrow Manu and let us know how it goes
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Museclues
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*clainks glass*cheers to cydo!!!*glass breaks*
darn apple cider!
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ashentara
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well we did meet up this arvo, and it was kinda nice. Like.. we could talk without any pressure since we weren't in a relationship any more you know?
So I told him everything he used to do or tell me that pissed me off lol
And we talked about all that as grown-ups, felt like a nice change. So I don't know what's gonna happen now. We'll see. The good thing is, he knows me inside out, so there was none of that "awkward chit chat"... it's nice to be with someone who knows you well. Oh well we'll see
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