ashentara
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The "Manu's got a new guy and can finally be herself&quLol
I finally met someone "worthy" lol he's a police officer, 32, a widower (he loft hisl wife to suicide in january) and we've been hitting off in and out of bed really well lol
what do you guys think...
He still has a lot of questions/stuff going on about his late wife... but lately we've been seeing a lot of each other and we just click on every level.
So I don't know.
I don't want to push things.. but at the same time I really feel this could be the guy that would make me want to move on and make me happy!
here are a couple of pics
in uniform
drunk lol
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ashentara
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oh and let me add he's got two piercings and two tattoos hidden under that uniform. Guess what? where? lol
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wildflower
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hahah manu, what a great post!! things do look like theyre looking up hoooray! i wouldnt even think about any of that serious stuff just now, its early days and you obviously get on really really well, so just enjoy the time you have together and let the rest come naturally! awww im so happy for you!
hes a hottie too heheh!
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Northern-Star
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I agree he is cute  Love a man in uniform I second what Carroll says, just let it happen, go with the flow 
Nipples pierced?
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ashentara
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yeah guys sorry about this self-centered topic but I figured nobody would mind here lol
yeah, nipple is right plus belly button (first time I saw it on a guy, but it's dead sexy lol)
he's also got two tats. Being the piercing/tat freak that I am..
but yeah I'm just enjoying it for now, we'll see what the future brings!!
but it's the first time since Chad's death thta I can really feel myself falling hard for someone!! Woohoo!!! (let's hope he doesn't break my heart or die on me lol)
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hystericali
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wooooo! Go with the flow and see how things go. I'm happy that you're happy 
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ashentara
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thank you!
things are great right now and fingers crossed it'll last a while!!!
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jensmuse
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manu has a fitty!
good luck manu he sounds like a keeper!
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Helen
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Awww Many I am so happy for you - he looks really nice.
Maybe with what happened with Chad and what happend with his wife (although I know are completely different circumstances) you will both understand each others feelings and stuff.
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Ninja-Boy
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woooo!
*refrains from sayin how good he looks in attempt to not ;look gay*
but still, he looks a keeper
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wildflower
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haha aww steevey you crack me up 
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ashentara
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Yeah you crack me up too steevy lol
Yeah I find him good-looking lol I can't deny it and apparently he likes me too lol
tomorrow we get to spend the whole afternoon together, woohooo. So far we'd only been able to squeeze an hour here, an hour there from our both busy schedules, but this time I'll have him from noon to 6! He he I plan to make good use of that time.
Regarding the fact that we both lost someone close, yes I think it makes it easier on some levels, coz we both understand what each other's been through. And it's easier to help when you've been through the same ordeal..
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Ninja-Boy
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good luck with him manu *crosses fingers and toes*
*and legs*
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ashentara
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thanks Steevy!
I'll keep you guys posted as usual
btw where did you get the idea for that "Fous ta cagoule" message of yours? ROFL
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hystericali
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keep us posted
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Ninja-Boy
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from a song LN sent me
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ashentara
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Right I understand now lol
it's a horrible song you know that right? lol
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Ninja-Boy
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i like it 
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jensmuse
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What does it translate too?
i hate it
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Ninja-Boy
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put on your balaclavas wasnt it?
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ashentara
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yeah literally that's it, but it means really "put on your condom"
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Ninja-Boy
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lol!
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ashentara
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this topic might well not be there tomorrow any more
things aren't so great with mister I thought I had found the right person.
guess what
he's scared to commit
how many times have I heard that I swear
I'm beginnign to think I'm that kind of girl that no one can commit to
anyways he's supposed to call me tonight to "talk things thru"
got a bad feeling about that one!
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ashentara
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I should always trust my feelings..
he did call
and he did dump me
gooooooooooooooooooood!
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Ninja-Boy
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aw no manu!
what a twatter 
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jensmuse
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awww manu , bloody men
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Ninja-Boy
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*agrees with jenn*
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Northern-Star
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sorry Manu
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wildflower
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awww manu, what a pig! youre better off without someone like him!
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ashentara
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problem is, he's really a good guy
but still not ready to get into a serious relationship because he lost his wife in february.
"But if I wanted a serious committed relationship, you'd be perfect"
how many times have I heard that gosh!
and surprisingly enough I dreamed about Chad all night last night. I'm still trying to decipher his message. Do we have a topic about dreams? Coz that one was downright weird
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wildflower
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yeah we do have a topic about dreams, post in there maybe someone can help you decipher it  yeah, that guy does sound nice, and i suppose its not realy that long since he lost his wife, maybe you can stay in contact and then when he feels he's ready maybe you can resume your relationship? hope you feel ok anyway
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ashentara
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k will post in the dreams thread then
we said we'd keep in touch.. I don't know how it'll turn out. Sometimes you know it's easy, sometimes it doesn't work... i.e. if everytime we see each other I feel heartbroken that we're not together, I'm not a masochist lol
but if we can manage to be friends without anyone being hurt... I don't know.
I had a good feeling about that one.
Yes maybe he'll change his mind... but I'm certainly n ot gonna tell him "in case you should change your mind, I'm here". I may think it, but I'm not telling him. lol
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wildflower
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awww hehe, im sure that you will be the first person he calls on if he feels ready, i hope you really can stay friends, that would be great, you can never have too many friends
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ashentara
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yeah I hope so
not a good night tonight
this all dating thing..; brings me back to square one.
Am I really ready to date??? think not.
here is what I just wrote
I’ve had the time of my life with you babe
And I don’t cry because of it
I cry because it’s over
And it’ll never be the same
No one believed in me like you did
No one accepted me as I am like you did
No one ever will
I truly believe in soulmates
You only get one
I found mine
I'm so lucky
I just wish we could have spent more time together
I love you so much
I just want to be with you
No one else
I’ve tried to date other people
But no one comes even close
I knew no one would ever replace you
But no one’s ever come close to filling a bit of that
Black aching void in my heart
That place you used to fill with roses and sweets and cheese
That place is yours only
I miss you so much
You were the one person I could confide anything in
I never held back anything from you
Even stuff I wasn’t so proud of
You just always had the right words, the right answers
I felt so safe with you at my side
So complete.
so tell me now, do you think I'm ready to date?
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ashentara
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God I've been spending an awful lot of time on the phone with Loic (my "ex") because his little girl is in a hospoital, she nearly died of meningitis.... And he's been phoning me to talk, to take his mind off htings, etc.
I was really glad, as in "we're really friends now" and i hleped him as best I could
But today we were supposed ot have lunch together, and we did, but we also ... how do you put it... had an interval in bed lol. And I'm utterly confused now.
I don't think he's using me, he's too cute and nice ane eveything for that... andI could have said no... but it felt so right... Geez I'm lost here.
Any thoughts?
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