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Ham of the Problematique
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Know what you mean there. If I were you, I'd try to wait for him to make a move (which hopefully he will, be it romantically, talking to you or getting rid of the girlfriend - but don't set much hope by that) and then you'll be able to talk about it openly or at least know where you stand with it all. I hope things resolve themselves soon.  
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 10:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ham of the Problematique wrote:
Know what you mean there. If I were you, I'd try to wait for him to make a move (which hopefully he will, be it romantically, talking to you or getting rid of the girlfriend - but don't set much hope by that) and then you'll be able to talk about it openly or at least know where you stand with it all. I hope things resolve themselves soon.  


Yeah. I doubt he'd break up with his girlfriend. From what i've seen, he seems happy with her, but he doesn't really speak about her much to me. For now i'm just happy for us to be friends, I just wish he would at least speak to me =/ Thanks Hannah, I hope things with you and that guy work out too.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 8:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seeing him on Tuesday.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oooh yay! Let us know how it goes, what the developments are.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Will do!
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Guhhh. He's just turned round and said 'dunno whether to bother tomorrow'
so now i'm not seeing him tomorrow.

Great.  
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 1:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote



What the hell is he playing at?!
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 6:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yep same reaction here.  What's going on???
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have no idea to be honest.
He texted me during Sociology asking if I still wanted to meet up. I was tempted to text back saying no, but he'd sent me a message yesterday saying that he was sorry that if it seemed he was being off with me, he was just feeling a bit down.
I think I just caught him in a bad mood yesterday.
But anyway, I met up with him today and we just talked about music and cuddled, it was nice ^_^ I still don't know where I stand though, because he has a girlfriend.
I don't know what's wrong with me really, I keep saying I should get out now before I get too attached, but I don't want to....

/confusion
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I bet he's just as confused as you are though. Ahem, cuddling with another girl when you have a girlfriend.. seriously!!


As for me, it seems my relationship with Mr Crush is headed towards deep friendship or something like that.  We seem to be able to spend hours discussing tough stuff like death, disease, etc, and in a very easy way (ie no bickering), but profound all the same.  the kind of thing that leaves you wondering afterwards about all sorts of things, thinking about everything but the everyday stuff.. Emotionally draining.
Anyway, it's all good, I love that kind of stuff and our connection, but I don't think it's going anywhere else
oh, and guess what?  He's still thinking about his ex. Damn!
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ashentara wrote:
I bet he's just as confused as you are though. Ahem, cuddling with another girl when you have a girlfriend.. seriously!!


As for me, it seems my relationship with Mr Crush is headed towards deep friendship or something like that.  We seem to be able to spend hours discussing tough stuff like death, disease, etc, and in a very easy way (ie no bickering), but profound all the same.  the kind of thing that leaves you wondering afterwards about all sorts of things, thinking about everything but the everyday stuff.. Emotionally draining.
Anyway, it's all good, I love that kind of stuff and our connection, but I don't think it's going anywhere else
oh, and guess what?  He's still thinking about his ex. Damn!


Yeah, well I was supposed to meet him today but he spent about 20 minutes last night insulting my opinions then he blocked me....so yeah. He's a bloody confusing guy.

Aww, sorry to hear about that Manu! But alot of great relationships start by being friends first. Don't give up hope just yet!  
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 8:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He blocked you?  On MSN you mean?  
Wow.
Either he's a very quick-tempered fellow, or he's just impolite. Either way he needs to apologize. Or I'll make him


Yeah, I'm not giving up hope *just yet* as my b-day bash is coming up on Saturday. We'll see.
The weird thing is, now that I've finally moved on a bit and have feelings for a guy, there's a couple of other guys who are .. ahem... pursuing me if you know what I mean. What is it?  Like a big radar thing on my head saying "she's back on the market"?  
But I only have one guy in my heart right now. So we'll see if there's a chance of it developing or not. After that.. well, we'll see.

god I hope I don't have many decisions to make today. It's all "we'll see" this morning ah ah
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